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Why Does My Cat Lick Herself After I Pet Her?

Published in Cat Behavior 4 mins read

Your cat's post-petting self-grooming is a common and usually positive behavior, often signifying trust, comfort, and an attempt to reapply her scent or engage in a form of social bonding.

Understanding Your Cat's Post-Petting Grooming Rituals

When your feline friend immediately starts licking herself after you've shown her some affection, it might seem puzzling. However, this action is a natural part of feline communication and hygiene, rooted in several instinctual behaviors. It's rarely a sign of displeasure and, more often than not, indicates a strong, healthy bond between you and your pet.

Reapplying and Mixing Scents

Cats possess scent glands all over their bodies, particularly on their faces, flanks, and paws. These glands release pheromones that are essential for marking territory and communicating with other cats. When you pet your cat, your hands pick up some of her scent and also leave your unique human scent on her fur.

  • Scent Marking: Your cat might be licking herself to redistribute her own scent, ensuring her "signature" remains strong.
  • Bonding through Scent: She could also be mixing your scent with hers, creating a communal scent that signifies you are part of her trusted social group or "colony." This is a profound sign of acceptance and affection, indicating she considers you part of her family.

A Form of Mutual Grooming and Affection

One significant reason for this behavior is that your cat might be exhibiting a form of mutual grooming. Cats that share a strong bond and consider each other friends often groom one another simultaneously. When you pet your cat, especially in areas she enjoys, she may interpret this interaction as a physical act of social bonding, similar to how she would interact with another cat she trusts. Her subsequent licking of herself, or even the air around her, can be her way of participating in this "mutual grooming" ritual. It's her instinctual response to a close social interaction, reflecting a desire for connection and reinforcing your bond. This behavior is a clear indicator that she sees you as a trusted companion and a valued member of her inner circle.

Self-Soothing and Comfort

Licking is a well-known self-soothing mechanism for cats. The rhythmic action can release endorphins, which are natural feel-good hormones. After a pleasant petting session, your cat might be licking herself to:

  • Process Pleasure: Extend the feeling of contentment and relaxation she experienced during petting.
  • Reduce Mild Stress: If the petting was overstimulating, or if she's simply processing the interaction, licking can help her calm down.

Simple Hygiene and Tidying Up

Cats are meticulously clean animals. Sometimes, the reason is as straightforward as maintaining her impeccable hygiene. Your touch, while affectionate, might have ruffled her fur slightly or moved some loose hairs. Your cat might simply be taking the opportunity to:

  • Smooth Her Coat: Lick her fur back into place, ensuring it's tidy and well-groomed.
  • Remove Debris: Ensure no foreign particles (even microscopic ones from your hands) remain on her coat.

Other Considerations

While less common immediately after petting, excessive or compulsive licking that leads to bald spots or skin irritation can sometimes indicate underlying stress, anxiety, allergies, or pain. However, a brief grooming session after petting is typically a normal, healthy feline behavior.

Interpreting Your Cat's Licking

Understanding the context and observing other body language cues can help you discern the specific reason behind your cat's post-petting lick.

Reason What it signifies
Scent Marking You are part of her trusted group, shared territory, or an accepted individual.
Mutual Grooming Strong bond, she views you as a friend or family member worthy of social interaction.
Self-Soothing Contentment, relaxation, trust, or processing a pleasant interaction.
Hygiene/Tidying Her natural instinct to maintain a clean and orderly coat.

What This Means for Your Bond

Generally, your cat licking herself after you pet her is a positive sign. It reinforces that she trusts you, feels safe in your presence, and considers you an important part of her world. It's a testament to the strong bond you share. This behavior is a form of communication, a quiet "thank you" or an affirmation of your relationship.

When to Consult a Vet

While usually harmless, it's wise to observe for any changes that might signal an issue. You should consult your veterinarian if:

  • The licking becomes obsessive or compulsive, leading to bald patches, skin redness, or sores.
  • She shows other signs of distress or discomfort (e.g., changes in appetite, litter box habits, hiding).
  • The behavior is accompanied by excessive scratching or signs of pain.

In most cases, enjoy these moments, as they are a small but significant way your cat expresses her deep connection with you.