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Who Said to Whom Examples?

Published in Grammar & Usage 2 mins read

When identifying the speaker of an action or the recipient of communication, English grammar uses the pronouns "who" and "whom." Understanding their distinct roles as subject and object pronouns, respectively, is key to correct usage.

Distinguishing Between 'Who' and 'Whom'

The primary difference between "who" and "whom" lies in their grammatical function within a sentence:

  • Who acts as a subject pronoun, performing the action of the verb. Think of it as replacing "he" or "she."
  • Whom acts as an object pronoun, receiving the action of the verb or following a preposition. Think of it as replacing "him" or "her."

This distinction is crucial when framing questions about who is performing an action ("who said?") or to whom an action is directed ("to whom?").

When to Use 'Who' (Subject)

Use "who" when the pronoun is the subject of the verb—the one doing the saying, knowing, or being. It asks about the identity of the person performing the action.

Examples:

  • Who is at the door? (Here, "who" is the subject, performing the action of "being at the door.")
  • Who knows the answer? (In this case, "who" is the subject, performing the action of "knowing.")

When to Use 'Whom' (Object)

Use "whom" when the pronoun is the object of a verb or a preposition. It asks about the identity of the person receiving the action or being affected by a preposition.

Examples:

  • To whom should I speak? (Here, "whom" is the object of the preposition "to.")
  • With whom do you want to work? (In this sentence, "whom" is the object of the preposition "with.")

Practical Examples: Who vs. Whom

To further clarify, consider the following table which presents examples illustrating the correct usage of "who" and "whom":

Usage of 'Who' (Subject) Usage of 'Whom' (Object)
Who is at the door? To whom should I speak?
Who knows the answer? With whom do you want to work?

A simple trick to remember is to try replacing "who" or "whom" with "he/him" or "she/her." If "he" or "she" fits, use "who." If "him" or "her" fits, use "whom."

  • "(He) is at the door?" -> "Who is at the door?"
  • "Should I speak to (him)?" -> "To whom should I speak?"

Understanding these rules ensures clarity and grammatical correctness when identifying individuals in communication or action.